When will I ever learn?
Okay, I’m busily writing what will hopefully be a more eventful chapter in the major storyline. But I’m running into more dead-ends, here. Since the professional isn’t stepping up, I’m going to ask input from YOU learned folks.
I submitted some questions that I thought were interesting and worth answering but it must be a busy time of year for various therapists. So here you go:
#1. I’m in a bit of a rut or a holding pattern in my relationship with my wife. We’re not getting anywhere. Will therapy help move us out of that pattern, even if she does not participate?
#2. I know of a local Christian sex counselor who just happens to work through my wife’s church counseling center. What sort of questions would be good to ask to make sure he’s competent?
#3. What would an initial first visit look like, assuming he is experienced and competent? What could I expect? (I’m thinking of a solo visit before doing anything jointly, even if Arwyn would be keen to go along with it.)
That’s it. I know a bunch of you have experience with this, and more of you have suggested it than actually done it. But now it your chance. Speak up and fill me in.