Too bad Micheal over at the Psychiatrist's Couch Potato restricts his comments to team members. I'd have dropped him a line.
It's really something that most of the bloggers I read and read me spend a lot more time thinking about sex than actually having it. I spend more time reading about it than having it. I spend more time writing about it that actually having it. In fact, I can not think of anything that takes up so much of my mental energy that I just don't do that much. Except maybe traveling.
The purpose of this blog has been to chronicle my struggle for more intimacy within my marriage. And sex has been a huge part of that. I've worked on defining and refining the entire clashing libido debate. I have learned a lot through the process and from you good folks who have read and commented. Especially those notable die-hards who have hung on through a change of address.
I'll probably still read and write about sex more than I actually have sex, but I'm giving careful thought to it. My sex life has improved, but not that much. Actually, it has gotten less dismal and stopped rocketing on a trajectory of imminent disaster. That's worthy, and I'll take it.
A: "You know there’s going to be security there."
Me: "Oh, really?"
A: Yes. You're okay, right?
Me: Yeah…I guess. Why? Why are you giving me that weird look?
A: You're not wearing anything…um…that might set it off and embarrass us?
Me: Eh? OOHH! Yeah! I mean, no. No, not today.
A: Good! I'd hate to be that embarrassed. How would you deal with it?
Me: I'd just explain to them that this was an idea that my wife came up with, and that I went along…
A: OOOHHHH no you don't! I have nothing to do with it!
Me: Oh well, it's not an issue, anyway.
I can only imagine what she might be imagining!LOL! For those still wondering, she was thinking of the cage and the lock setting off the metal detector. We both did get kind of a chuckle about it.
I'm not sure it would have set it off, anyway, since my belt buckle didn't set off their little hand wands. But there was a few years ago where a woman chastity belt wearer got caught in airport security. She was a member of the listserv I subscribe to and it was interesting listening to her tell her side of it after reading media reports.