Just a short post to say that letting Mom know about my situation (but not giving her a linkl to the blog) was probably the right move. she’s been through stuff with Dad and was there when my sister’s marriage was going through a lot of turmoil. No substitute for wisdom and experience, plus she knows both Arwyn and I.
In the spiritual warefare I now fight, prayer is the King of Battle, trversing distances at light speed. Mom is a prayer warrior second to none. FWIW, Arwyn is slightly softer than she was before. No sex, but that’s as much to do with me as her. She goes to bed at 8:30 and I’m just not able to turn in that early. At least there isn’t the fighting posture we’ve endured the last couple of weeks.