Thanks for the comments on the two latest entries. Basically, my prostate seems to be suffering from as much age as neglect. Today is the last for the pills, and I’m more or less back to normal, although I’m not sure if or how enlarged I might be. There’s a lot of information out there, most of it confusing and often conflicting.
I’ve been spending more time studying about prostatis and prostate massage. The massage bit has captured my imagination. Butt play has never been a serious distraction of mine until relatively recently. I thought about it some, and had read plenty of articles about it since it seems to be a prominent theme in many of the male chastity writings. It just never did much for me beyond making me curious. But now, for some reason, this is becoming a new continent that may just be waiting to be discovered. Here’s one reason.
The prostate has often been referred to as the male G-spot. Some writings actually think the female G-spot is actually a sort of vestigal prostate, in the same way the clitoris seems analogous to a penis. Interesting way of thinking about it, at least for me. This is unexplored territory…for me.
Apparently the gay male community has been in on the secret for a long time. The male hetero community, being phobic about all things gay, absolutely reject the idea. They have enough trouble trying to figure out foreplay so adding a male G-spot to the mix simply complicates things even more. If wearing a chastity cage seems scary to the average male mind, going for prostate massage would be just as foreign…at least for the straight male mind.
I’m not contemplating playing for the other team or even switch hitting, here. I’m just talking about self-exploration. Perhaps looking out for my health while enhancing my pleasure. On my own. At least when I’m intimate with myself, I’m with someone I know, love and care about!
Think one would magically appear if I put it on an amazon.com wishlist?LOL!
I’m thinking about the Aneros model. While it’s on the pricey side compared to a regular buttplug, it seems to offer a bit more in the way of features. Plus, it seems to be the tool of choice in the chastity community.
And I’d have something interesting to blog about.
So ladies, what would you think about your man getting into such a kink? You think it’s a gross turn-off? Would you want to join in? Or would you let that be his own private little hobby? Maybe you’d rather not know.
Gentlemen: Would you? Could you? Have you already? Is it a topic that makes you feel squeamish? Does it seem too “gay”?
Just some interesting questions to consider. The idea of exploring some new territory appeals to me, whilst waiting for the winds to blow some real intimacy my way. Might as well learn a thing or two.