Audience Participation

 

 

When will I ever learn?

Okay, I’m busily writing what will hopefully be a more eventful chapter in the major storyline.  But I’m running into more dead-ends, here.  Since the professional isn’t stepping up, I’m going to ask input from YOU learned folks.

 

I submitted some questions that I thought were interesting and worth answering but it must be a busy time of year for various therapists.  So here you go:

 

#1. I’m in a bit of a rut or a holding pattern in my relationship with my wife.  We’re not getting anywhere.  Will therapy help move us out of that pattern, even if she does not participate?

 

#2. I know of a local Christian sex counselor who just happens to work through my wife’s church counseling center.  What sort of questions would be good to ask to make sure he’s competent?

 

#3. What would an initial first visit look like, assuming he is experienced and competent?  What could I expect? (I’m thinking of a solo visit before doing anything jointly, even if Arwyn would be keen to go along with it.)

 

That’s it.  I know a bunch of you have experience with this, and more of you have suggested it than actually done it.  But now it your chance.  Speak up and fill me in.

 

Thanks!